Although it is natural for a couple to have a conflict, just like friends and families or co-

workers and socialites, family conflicts are often more dangerous than any other.

Therefore, it is important to conduct specific studies on the causes and the best ways to prevent or solve them. It is also important to learn about the types of conflicts that occur and how to find solutions that prevent them from destroying the family. The Pew research center based in the United States of America recently conducted a survey and found that family divorce is increasing in the world.

This has caused people in Western countries to worry about marriage. The most common reasons for the decline in marriage are the financial instability of the world’s growing population, the uncertainty of careers and the fear that each partner has that the other will fulfill the covenant of building their family. . It is also part of the fear that many people have that they will not be able to find the partner they want.

The basis of marital discord

Researcher Lopez and a group of colleagues in a study to find out the type of conflict between couples found 83 reasons that are all part of the conflict between couples. Among the 30 reasons he described are the most common causes of conflict between married couples.

* Love and affection that is appropriate for the relationship or is missing from one of the partners.

* The couple’s relationship is broken or weakened, especially when they live in different places.

* One of the two people did not have the care that the other considered important.

* Jealousy.H2

* A couple who are either in contact with someone they were previously in a relationship with or someone they were previously married to and separated from.

* One of the spouses is a monopolist who likes to control everything and be left behind, or acts as if the other person is his property.

* One of the two people who spends more time with their friends than their twin.

* Manage household affairs, meals and how to share housework with the family.

* Responsibilities on how to share, the time of sexual intercourse that is not understood or the two people could not satisfy each other.

* The special relationship between two people and one of them talks about it to other people, and then his twin gets angry because he is the one who was between them.

* Roots and families of either or both of the people who intervene in the family.

* One of the causes of family conflict is a disagreement about advice and how the couple should be with each other, or who is in control.

* Studies have highlighted that the most common causes of family disputes are differences in religious or cultural views.

* The purpose of life and a different perspective.

* Agreeing on future plans for the family.

* Child rearing.

* A partner who feels that one of them is not interested in the other or that they are not in love with each other.

* Jealousy of one partner from the other and fraud committed by one of them, or sexual relations that are not agreed upon.

* Relationships or past love that one of the partners has experienced can also be a threat to the existence of the family, and the most common reason is when the person they have experienced does not stop talking about the story or dare to cut off the relationship with the person they are in a relationship with. they already have.

Experts say that family disputes usually arise when the family has been together for three years.

There may be people who are surprised by some of the points mentioned in these studies, what the experts say is that first of all, the form and content of disputes depends on the local culture, beliefs and civilizations that the couple comes from, but still Most of these points are in common. On the other hand, the social science experts who prepared these articles say that the intention is not that these articles or any of them that happen immediately cause the conflict, but it is a recurring issue and after a while, the anger and resentment in the field will turn into a conflict and that Can’t stand each other or break up.